man and women

Man and Women

It is not easy to be a man you know. I mean MAN. Not a general literaly english means human. But a MAN. It doesn't mean that being a such wonderful gender like a man ( and women too) just to show how gentle man or macho you are. Like my friend said, being a man is not like a knight hero with a shinning armor, a black strong horse and a great sword to rescue the princess in the tower. You see...for me being a man is more like more than that.

Man are always related with their some kind of egoistic attitude. For some women, they always said that man have more ego than women. I can't prove it or said in other way. But what can I say that, we are human we have our ego. It doesn't mean that women don't have ego. Rite?

Some might asked me how to be a perfect man. To be honest, I don't like a somewhat to answer that stupid question or childish question like this. Because, I'm not perfect to be the perfect man. I'm not deserve to answer that question unless I was awarded ' the most macho man in the world' or 'the next James Bond to be'. Unless you are J Lo and some one ask you how to be sexy and a perfect women. Or James Bond with expensive suite, shining shoes, great car and a sexy lady. You can answer that kind of question.

Being a such wonderful human or prefer to say man like me, I'm very proud God had created me as a man. I didn't say that women are looser. Not at all. But being a man means that you are the leader for your family, your responsibility and man are always like to be a decision maker. But being a man, man also need a women. To be love and to love. I never doubt that "behind a great man there is always a women." Women was created by the God to full-fill a man need and women have thier own responsibles too. I was still remembered Allahyarham Ahmed Deedat - a former Islamic and world's most respected debator. He said that Allah created man and women in this world to mix each other. It is like a sausage. when you eat a chicken susage you can't see a chicken meat in the sausage but you know it is a chicken sousage and the chicken meat has been added with other ingredient to make it more delicious. Meaning that chicken meat and other ingredient has been mix together into one form - a sausage. Soo, what the hell it is all about with us? You see, man and women has been created in this world to full filled each other soo that we can mix togehter in to one form - community. A great example isn't it ?

Acctually, it is doesn't matter who you are - man or women or(?) whatsoever called. The bottom line is, whatever who you are - either women or man, just be proud of yourself. Man - be proud that you are the leader for you family one day and once you are the leader, always remember that you have a lot of responsibilities. A lot. You are the protector, the guidence, the leader and the decision maker. Your family future depends on you. And you should know how to be a leader. For women - nothing more that I can say that be a such wonderful human like you to full filled a man's need. To comfort the man and to be a angel for the man. You have privillage quite more than man. You have only one thing than man never can't have - your warm-hearted instinct, your soft attitude, your caring and you a given a full responsibility to give a birth for the man - your husband. Always remember that man and women a like in one sausage.

Never doubt that being a such wonderful human like us, ( man or women ) we ware created with our own task.

For me, man and women are not more like a puzzle board. If you can't match the right piece next to the other piece, you can't join other pieces because every pieces of the puzzle need each other. And they were put side by side. Once a piece lost, you can't join them together because for only one piece have lost, you will never find the right same one and the puzzle will be never complete.

Trust me.