Sunday, March 19, 2006

It's a morning essay..

I spoke last night with my friend trough the phone. For nearly one year never heard about her, suddenly my mind just flashing back her face. I took my handphone, call the other friend and ask them her phone number. (I didn't erased her number but since the terible things happened to my past Sony Ericsson, I could not find her number yet. Thanx to Pae).

Things changes soo fast. Life, story, history just gone by the wind and anyone could not remember what happens between us. Some fairy tales if you want to include and a messy life happens to her since the last 2 years. Yes, she had change. Trough the voice I heard, the way she talked, laugh and even her attitude had change. Never like same before. It is quite weird for me when I talked to her. Just like making a new friends- first time call and even asked some silly question.

I asked her, what she had done trough for the last 2 years. Girls. Always unpredictable but sometimes predictable. The silent she maked I knew that she had transform with a full of sacrifice she made, pain that she had to take and alot of obstacles in her life. She told me everything what happned. From the day she started to wake up from the sleep, trying to fight with her illness and how she had take back her deserve happy life today.

Honestly, I'm quite shocked and amazed for what she had done. Her fiancee had run away from her since he knew that she suffers leukemia, she had to quit from studying at her dream university, lost a lot of friends and luckily it is not me :) and how she create her new life.

I tried to imagine if I was in her place and what would I had to do. Maybe I'am not strong enough like her or maybe I just putting myself as a person who lost hope and totally become a looser.

Seeing far enough for what she had suffer, I salute her. Her encourage was never seen by me. Her brave was never doubt and her will and spirits to fight back the leukimia was never questioned by anybody.

Now, she is one of the most respectable friends I ever had. The strongest human I ever seen and the greates friend I ever met. Believe, if you met her in past 2 years, you will never believe me how she can survive. Just like I said, she is different than before. Totally and truly different. She has a great job, a good friends around her and a good and nice fiancee. She told me that her marriage will be the end of this year. And her love one is a person who helped her soo much with a full of sincerely and never learnt how to give up for her.

You guys include me, myself, just think for what I had told you guys about her. The main key for her success are never give up and hope is every where. Put yourself close to the Almighty and the rest He will take care of you.

Just what she told me, she was very thankful to Allah because she can celebrate her 24th birthday last month. There is no party, blowing a 24 sticks of candle, no celebration. Just having a sincere pray to Allah just to show how she is soo thankful to the AlMighty for giving back her new life so that she will appreciate better than before.

I asked her, what would she do next. She said that she will countinued her study at UIA taking back her Syariah's Law Degree and get married. Probably all this things will be settle for 3 months. The last word she advice me before I push my end call button."You are luckier than me, earn it and never puts yourself into a complicated situation. Be thankful for what you had got. Use you life opportunity to do something meaningful and always remember the Almighty."

That is the most valuable advice I got this year or maybe once in my life. Thanx again for your advice. May Allah bless you.

Anyway, Happy Belated Birthday to you, Effa....

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